"Revenge is profitable, gratitude is expensive"
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Gratitude, by contrast, is “expensive” because it obligates. To express thanks is to admit dependence, to acknowledge another person’s agency in your survival or success. That confession can be politically destabilizing: it flattens hierarchies, complicates narratives of self-made virtue, and demands repayment that may not be strategically convenient. Gratitude also has carrying costs. It requires attention, memory, and humility - qualities that don’t scale well in bureaucracies or conquest states, where forgetting is often a feature, not a bug.
The subtext is a bleak anthropology: societies tend to reward the emotions that sharpen control and punish the ones that create mutual claims. Gibbon isn’t merely cynical; he’s warning that when incentives favor vendetta over acknowledgment, civilizations drift toward cruelty dressed up as pragmatism.
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