"Right now I'm single. Single, and loving it"
About this Quote
The bluntness of “and loving it” is the strategic twist. It’s not “content,” not “fine,” not “working on myself.” It’s pleasure, which is often the one emotion women aren’t granted in the single box. Watley’s intent feels less like oversharing and more like boundary-setting: a preemptive refusal to let outsiders interpret her life as lack.
As a pop statement, it also carries the era’s sheen of self-possession - the late-80s/early-90s shift toward autonomy as a lifestyle brand, where confidence is part attitude, part armor. There’s subtextual performance here: if you say it cleanly and confidently enough, you can make it true even under the pressure of gossip, industry expectations, and romantic mythology. The line lands because it’s simple, quotable, and slightly defiant - an upbeat veto against everyone else’s storyline.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Watley, Jody. (2026, January 17). Right now I'm single. Single, and loving it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/right-now-im-single-single-and-loving-it-52080/
Chicago Style
Watley, Jody. "Right now I'm single. Single, and loving it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/right-now-im-single-single-and-loving-it-52080/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Right now I'm single. Single, and loving it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/right-now-im-single-single-and-loving-it-52080/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



