"Roman's wife Sharon Tate had been murdered by Charles Manson the year before, but Roman had been through so much leaving the Warsaw ghetto that he was very strong and private"
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The intent feels protective. “Very strong and private” is a soft shield, a way to explain silence or reserve without asking for more disclosure. It also frames Polanski as someone who metabolizes pain internally, which can read as dignity - or as a refusal to be emotionally available. That’s the subtext: an attempt to justify distance.
Context matters because the speaker is an actress describing a powerful director, likely from within a professional and social orbit where discretion is currency. The phrasing “had been murdered by Charles Manson” collapses the complex reality (Manson didn’t physically commit the killings) into the shorthand of pop history, reinforcing how myth has swallowed nuance. The sentence ends up doing two things at once: humanizing Polanski through biography while also rehearsing the public script that keeps him perpetually framed by catastrophe, as if suffering itself were a credential.
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Annis, Francesca. (n.d.). Roman's wife Sharon Tate had been murdered by Charles Manson the year before, but Roman had been through so much leaving the Warsaw ghetto that he was very strong and private. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/romans-wife-sharon-tate-had-been-murdered-by-33197/
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Annis, Francesca. "Roman's wife Sharon Tate had been murdered by Charles Manson the year before, but Roman had been through so much leaving the Warsaw ghetto that he was very strong and private." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/romans-wife-sharon-tate-had-been-murdered-by-33197/.
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"Roman's wife Sharon Tate had been murdered by Charles Manson the year before, but Roman had been through so much leaving the Warsaw ghetto that he was very strong and private." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/romans-wife-sharon-tate-had-been-murdered-by-33197/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




