"Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries"
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Her sharp pivot - "That's the condition of the female" - borrows the language of biology to indict culture. She’s not saying women are naturally sacrificial; she’s saying the role has been naturalized so thoroughly it starts to look like fate. That’s the subtext: patriarchy doesn’t need to shout when it can teach people to call compliance "love", "duty", or "being good". By using "condition", Dodson frames femininity as something produced, trained, enforced - closer to social engineering than identity.
The final line makes the target explicit: conditioning. It’s a behavioral term, a classroom word from an educator who spent her life arguing that sexual and emotional autonomy are skills you can learn, not permissions you’re granted. Read in the context of second-wave feminism and Dodson’s sex-positive work, the quote is also a critique of how self-denial gets threaded through women’s bodies: sacrifice as motherhood, as relationship maintenance, as politeness, as performing desirability while shrinking needs.
What makes it work is its blunt compression. Dodson doesn’t negotiate with the reader; she names the pattern, then names the mechanism. The rhythm itself is the point: repetition as evidence of repetition.
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Dodson, Betty. (n.d.). Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sacrifice-sacrifice-sacrifice-thats-the-condition-41034/
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Dodson, Betty. "Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sacrifice-sacrifice-sacrifice-thats-the-condition-41034/.
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"Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That's the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sacrifice-sacrifice-sacrifice-thats-the-condition-41034/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









