"Say not you know another entirely till you have divided an inheritance with him"
About this Quote
The quote’s punch comes from its structural cynicism. Lavater doesn’t say you’ll learn something new about the other person; he implies you’ll finally meet them. The word “entirely” is doing the heavy lifting, mocking the confidence we place in years of shared meals, holidays, and pious self-descriptions. A person can perform generosity in everyday life; inheritance exposes their theory of justice. Do they default to strict entitlement, to sentimental fairness, to strategic compromise, to quiet coercion?
As an 18th-century theologian, Lavater is also smuggling in a moral claim: money is a spiritual stress test. In a culture where property anchored lineage, status, and survival, inheritance disputes weren’t petty; they were identity crises with legal teeth. The subtext is almost pastoral: if you want to know who someone is when grace runs out, watch them when the estate gets split. That’s the moment character stops being narrated and starts being audited.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lavater, Johann Kaspar. (2026, January 18). Say not you know another entirely till you have divided an inheritance with him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/say-not-you-know-another-entirely-till-you-have-22696/
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Lavater, Johann Kaspar. "Say not you know another entirely till you have divided an inheritance with him." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/say-not-you-know-another-entirely-till-you-have-22696/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Say not you know another entirely till you have divided an inheritance with him." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/say-not-you-know-another-entirely-till-you-have-22696/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.










