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Life & Wisdom Quote by Lord Byron

"Self-love for ever creeps out, like a snake, to sting anything which happens to stumble upon it"

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Self-love, in Byron's hands, isn't the glossy self-care slogan modern culture sells; it's a furtive, predatory instinct with bad manners. The genius of the line is the motion: it "creeps out", uninvited, from wherever it's been hiding, and it attacks not because it's threatened but because something simply "happens to stumble upon it". That casual phrasing is the tell. Byron frames ego not as a heroic drive but as a hair-trigger irritability, waiting for accidental contact so it can justify retaliation.

The snake simile does double work. It's biblical in its moral charge, but also social: snakes don't argue, they strike. Byron is diagnosing how self-regard turns people into reactive creatures, turning minor slights, awkward truths, even well-meant advice into occasions for venom. The target is "anything" - broad enough to include rivals, lovers, friends, critics, the public. He's not describing a single vice; he's describing the mechanism by which vanity makes enemies.

Context matters: Byron lived in an atmosphere of scandal, celebrity, and sharp-edged literary rivalry, where reputation was currency and offense was sport. The line reads like a weary insider's report from the salon battlefield: the most dangerous person isn't the outright villain, it's the one whose fragile pride needs constant safeguarding. Byron's cynicism lands because it refuses sentimentality; he suggests the ego doesn't need a reason to bite. It only needs contact.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Byron, Lord. (n.d.). Self-love for ever creeps out, like a snake, to sting anything which happens to stumble upon it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-love-for-ever-creeps-out-like-a-snake-to-20942/

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Byron, Lord. "Self-love for ever creeps out, like a snake, to sting anything which happens to stumble upon it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-love-for-ever-creeps-out-like-a-snake-to-20942/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Self-love for ever creeps out, like a snake, to sting anything which happens to stumble upon it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-love-for-ever-creeps-out-like-a-snake-to-20942/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Lord Byron

Lord Byron (January 22, 1788 - April 19, 1824) was a Poet from United Kingdom.

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