"Self-Realization Fellowship seemed like training. It was the training ground for finding a sense of peace in myself. Because that's my job. It's no one else's"
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The subtext is boundary-setting with a sting of hard-won clarity: "Because that's my job. It's no one else's". Hemingway isn’t merely claiming agency; she’s refusing a familiar narrative in celebrity culture where pain becomes a communal property and recovery becomes a public performance. In her world, people are quick to appoint themselves as saviors, fixers, or judges. This line shuts the door on that, insisting on a private jurisdiction where responsibility can’t be outsourced and intimacy isn’t a substitute for self-work.
Context deepens the charge. As a Hemingway, she carries an inherited mythology of brilliance and breakdown, a family brand shadowed by depression and suicide. Against that backdrop, "training ground" reads like a deliberate counter-myth: not destiny, not tragedy-as-identity, but practice. The power of the quote is its refusal to romanticize suffering or spiritualize it into passivity. Peace becomes labor, and labor becomes dignity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hemingway, Mariel. (2026, January 16). Self-Realization Fellowship seemed like training. It was the training ground for finding a sense of peace in myself. Because that's my job. It's no one else's. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-realization-fellowship-seemed-like-training-99498/
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Hemingway, Mariel. "Self-Realization Fellowship seemed like training. It was the training ground for finding a sense of peace in myself. Because that's my job. It's no one else's." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-realization-fellowship-seemed-like-training-99498/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Self-Realization Fellowship seemed like training. It was the training ground for finding a sense of peace in myself. Because that's my job. It's no one else's." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/self-realization-fellowship-seemed-like-training-99498/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




