"Sentimentality - that's what we call the sentiment we don't share"
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The line works because it exposes the shame economy around emotion. When we accuse someone of being sentimental, we’re rarely arguing about the feeling itself; we’re policing its legitimacy. The subtext is: your tears don’t count, your nostalgia is cheap, your tenderness is embarrassing. Greene catches how quickly taste becomes morality. We don’t simply dislike your emotion; we indict it as inferior.
There’s a sly, almost clinical irony in his definition. It reads like a dictionary entry, but it’s really a mirror: the judge is the one on trial. The phrase “we don’t share” is the blade. It turns sentimentality from a property of art or speech into a relationship problem - a failure of identification. If I can’t or won’t enter your feeling, I call it sentimental to protect my self-image as discerning, unseduced.
Context matters: Greene wrote in an era that prized restraint and distrusted overt piety, while also living through war and ideological spectacle - perfect conditions for mistrusting public emotion. His Catholic-inflected work often treats sincerity as complicated and costly. This quip doesn’t redeem sentimentality; it indicts our reflex to dismiss it, revealing how “taste” can be a mask for fear of vulnerability.
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Greene, Graham. (2026, January 15). Sentimentality - that's what we call the sentiment we don't share. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sentimentality-thats-what-we-call-the-sentiment-149488/
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"Sentimentality - that's what we call the sentiment we don't share." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sentimentality-thats-what-we-call-the-sentiment-149488/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






