"Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life, and not something you do in your spare time"
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That framing carries Edelman’s activist context: a life spent arguing that social problems aren’t tragic accidents but the predictable result of policy choices and civic neglect. Coming out of civil rights work and children’s advocacy, she’s talking to people who want to be “good” without being inconvenient - those who donate once, post once, vote irregularly, then return to private comfort. The second sentence is the trapdoor: service isn’t what you do after the real work; it’s the real work. By demoting “spare time,” she attacks a modern coping mechanism: treating justice like a hobby that fits between career ambition and self-care.
The subtext is also a rebuke to meritocracy. If life’s purpose is service, then worth can’t be measured by résumé lines or market value. It shifts prestige away from individual achievement toward collective maintenance - the unglamorous labor of showing up, advocating, and sustaining institutions that let others survive. Edelman isn’t asking for sainthood; she’s demanding citizenship with teeth.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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| Source | Evidence: I was taught that we, the world, had a lot of problems, but that I could struggle and change them; that intellectual and material gifts brought the privilege and responsibility of sharing with those less fortunate; and that service is the rent that each of us pays for living, the very purpose of ... Other candidates (1) The Customer Service Revolution (John R. DiJulius, 2015) compilation95.8% ... Marian Wright Edelman , who said , “ Service is the rent we pay for being . It is the very purpose of life , and ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edelman, Marian Wright. (2026, February 8). Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life, and not something you do in your spare time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/service-is-the-rent-we-pay-for-being-it-is-the-148990/
Chicago Style
Edelman, Marian Wright. "Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life, and not something you do in your spare time." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/service-is-the-rent-we-pay-for-being-it-is-the-148990/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life, and not something you do in your spare time." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/service-is-the-rent-we-pay-for-being-it-is-the-148990/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







