""Sex" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other"
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The subtext is more combative than liberatory. “Restraint” and “false modesty” aren’t merely personal inhibitions; they’re social technologies. Church doctrine, aristocratic etiquette, and the policing of women’s virtue all depend on treating sex as spiritually dangerous rather than bodily ordinary. Sade’s sentence attacks that system at the root by rebranding sexual appetite as just another metabolic fact.
Context sharpens the edge. Sade wrote in an era obsessed with controlling bodies: laws around “public decency,” the confessional’s scrutiny of private acts, and the Enlightenment’s fascination with categorizing human behavior. He’s adjacent to Enlightenment materialism, but he twists it into a darker argument: if humans are machines of appetite, morality starts to look like costume jewelry.
The intent, then, isn’t tenderness or sex-positivity in the modern sense. It’s a wedge driven into the gap between nature and virtue, daring readers to admit how much of “modesty” is performance, and how quickly “restraint” becomes someone else’s power.
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Sade, Marquis de. (2026, January 17). "Sex" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-as-important-as-eating-or-drinking-and-we-24195/
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Sade, Marquis de. ""Sex" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-as-important-as-eating-or-drinking-and-we-24195/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
""Sex" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-as-important-as-eating-or-drinking-and-we-24195/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









