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Life & Mortality Quote by Charles Bukowski

"Sex is interesting, but it's not totally important. I mean it's not even as important (physically) as excretion. A man can go seventy years without a piece of ass, but he can die in a week without a bowel movement"

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Bukowski takes the loftiest modern obsession and drags it, literally, back to the body. The line is funny because it refuses seduction: sex, the supposed engine of identity and validation, gets demoted beneath the unglamorous plumbing that actually keeps you alive. That parenthetical "(physically)" is doing sly work. He’s not claiming sex is meaningless; he’s puncturing the way people treat it as metaphysical proof of worth. By narrowing the frame to biology, he forces a humiliating recalibration: desire isn’t destiny, it’s appetite.

The crudity is not just shock; it’s strategy. Bukowski’s voice thrives on anti-romance, a barroom empiricism that treats polite euphemism as a con. Saying "piece of ass" and "bowel movement" in the same breath is a class and taste grenade, aimed at any culture that markets sex as sophistication while pretending excretion doesn’t exist. He’s also mocking masculine brag culture: the threat isn’t celibacy, it’s constipation. That’s a gut-punch to male ego, and he knows it.

Context matters: Bukowski wrote from the underside of postwar American prosperity, where work, booze, loneliness, and sex form a cycle of coping rather than transcendence. The subtext is a warning against letting libido become a religion. If you treat sex as the primary measure of life, you’re already living in a kind of spiritual malnutrition. He doesn’t offer purity; he offers deflation, and the deflation is the point.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). Sex is interesting, but it's not totally important. I mean it's not even as important (physically) as excretion. A man can go seventy years without a piece of ass, but he can die in a week without a bowel movement. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-interesting-but-its-not-totally-important-185162/

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Bukowski, Charles. "Sex is interesting, but it's not totally important. I mean it's not even as important (physically) as excretion. A man can go seventy years without a piece of ass, but he can die in a week without a bowel movement." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-interesting-but-its-not-totally-important-185162/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sex is interesting, but it's not totally important. I mean it's not even as important (physically) as excretion. A man can go seventy years without a piece of ass, but he can die in a week without a bowel movement." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-is-interesting-but-its-not-totally-important-185162/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Bukowski

Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 - March 9, 1994) was a Poet from USA.

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