"Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex"
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The subtext is a critique of hypocrisy dressed as psychology. Ellis isn’t arguing for libertinism; he’s arguing against the damage done by euphemism, censorship, and punitive purity codes. “Understand sex” reads like a clinical instruction, but it carries a political charge: knowledge as dignity, curiosity as ethics. If you can’t face the forces that produce desire, attachment, reproduction, and pleasure, he implies, your respect for “life” is sentimental at best and coercive at worst.
Context matters because Ellis wrote at a moment when “sexology” was emerging as a modern discipline, one that often walked a tightrope between reform and pathologizing. His line aims to normalize discussion, but it also claims authority: the scientist as the new priest, translating taboo into “understanding.” The intent is educational and emancipatory, yet the move is also strategic: if sex is foundational, then studying it isn’t prurient, it’s indispensable. That is how the sentence works: it smuggles radical permission into the language of reverence.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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Ellis, Henry. (2026, January 18). Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-lies-at-the-root-of-life-and-we-can-never-5338/
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"Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sex-lies-at-the-root-of-life-and-we-can-never-5338/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







