"Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me"
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The line breaks into two tones that tell on each other. First, the breezy certainty: "I think it should be. Absolutely". It’s not coy; it’s an insistence that desire is subjective, unstable, and therefore less useful as a measuring stick. Then the pivot: "My sex appeal... isn't obvious... at least to me". That trailing hesitation reads like self-protection and self-awareness at once. She acknowledges the public myth being built around her while refusing to pretend she experiences herself the way the camera does. It’s a classic celebrity double bind: you’re rewarded for being seen as an object, but punished if you seem too aware of the transaction.
Coming from a late-60s screen presence often discussed more for her looks than her craft, the quote plays like soft resistance rather than manifesto. Tate isn’t denying her allure; she’s dodging the trap of narrating it for others. The subtext is a boundary: you can look, you can interpret, but you don’t get to tell me who I am.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tate, Sharon. (2026, January 16). Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/
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Tate, Sharon. "Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




