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Love & Passion Quote by Sharon Tate

"Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me"

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There is a quiet rebellion in Sharon Tate framing sexiness as something the viewer creates, not something the woman performs. In an era when actresses were marketed like products and photographed like evidence, she slides the power off her own body and onto the "beholder" with a deceptively simple move: if sexiness lives in someone else's eye, it can’t be fully owned, audited, or demanded from her.

The line breaks into two tones that tell on each other. First, the breezy certainty: "I think it should be. Absolutely". It’s not coy; it’s an insistence that desire is subjective, unstable, and therefore less useful as a measuring stick. Then the pivot: "My sex appeal... isn't obvious... at least to me". That trailing hesitation reads like self-protection and self-awareness at once. She acknowledges the public myth being built around her while refusing to pretend she experiences herself the way the camera does. It’s a classic celebrity double bind: you’re rewarded for being seen as an object, but punished if you seem too aware of the transaction.

Coming from a late-60s screen presence often discussed more for her looks than her craft, the quote plays like soft resistance rather than manifesto. Tate isn’t denying her allure; she’s dodging the trap of narrating it for others. The subtext is a boundary: you can look, you can interpret, but you don’t get to tell me who I am.

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Tate, Sharon. (2026, January 16). Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/

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Tate, Sharon. "Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/.

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"Sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder. I think it should be. Absolutely. My sex appeal, whatever it might be, isn't obvious... at least to me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexiness-is-all-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder-i-120689/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Sharon Tate (January 24, 1943 - August 9, 1969) was a Actress from USA.

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