"Sexy at the millennium means having a solid sense of self but never taking yourself too seriously"
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The first half, "a solid sense of self", signals autonomy as the new baseline. It's a rebuttal to the old script where sex appeal is something granted by an audience, a camera, or a partner. Romijn isn't romanticizing insecurity as mystique; she's suggesting that confidence is the real glamour. But the second clause is the twist that keeps it from curdling into self-help poster talk: "never taking yourself too seriously". That's not self-deprecation. It's social intelligence. It's a warning that identity can become performance, and performance can become a prison, especially for women whose images are monetized.
The subtext is defensive and liberating at once: if the culture is going to look at you constantly, you need an inner anchor, but you also need humor as armor. Sexiness, here, is the ability to be seen without being swallowed. The millennium context matters because it marks a shift toward curated selves; Romijn is insisting that the most compelling version still leaves room for play.
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Romijn, Rebecca. (2026, January 15). Sexy at the millennium means having a solid sense of self but never taking yourself too seriously. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexy-at-the-millennium-means-having-a-solid-sense-170234/
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Romijn, Rebecca. "Sexy at the millennium means having a solid sense of self but never taking yourself too seriously." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexy-at-the-millennium-means-having-a-solid-sense-170234/.
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"Sexy at the millennium means having a solid sense of self but never taking yourself too seriously." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sexy-at-the-millennium-means-having-a-solid-sense-170234/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











