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Daily Inspiration Quote by James M. Barrie

"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?"

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Barrie’s line isn’t asking for saintliness; it’s proposing kindness as a deliberate surplus. The sly power sits in that phrase “than is necessary,” which treats decency like a legal minimum most of us quietly aim for. He needles the reader’s inner accountant: the part that wants to do just enough to be blameless, to keep the social ledger balanced. Barrie suggests the moral action begins exactly where obligation ends.

“Shall we make a new rule…from tonight” has the intimacy of a curtain call, a private pact made in the afterglow of feeling. It’s also a playwright’s move: morality framed as a choice in real time, not an abstract virtue. “Tonight” implies immediacy, the way resolve is easiest when the heart is already softened, and hardest when tomorrow’s irritations arrive. The subtext: you will need a rule because your instincts won’t reliably carry you there.

Context matters: Barrie wrote in an era when British social life prized restraint, propriety, and a stiff upper lip that could look a lot like emotional starvation. His theater often smuggled tenderness into a culture suspicious of it. This line offers an alternative etiquette: not politeness, but generosity; not niceness, but attention.

Its durability comes from how small it sounds and how radical it is. “A little” lowers the barrier to entry; anyone can overpay in kindness by a penny. But repeated daily, that penny becomes a countercultural practice: choosing compassion even when you could get away with indifference.

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James M. Barrie (May 9, 1860 - June 19, 1937) was a Playwright from United Kingdom.

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