"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?"
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“Shall we make a new rule…from tonight” has the intimacy of a curtain call, a private pact made in the afterglow of feeling. It’s also a playwright’s move: morality framed as a choice in real time, not an abstract virtue. “Tonight” implies immediacy, the way resolve is easiest when the heart is already softened, and hardest when tomorrow’s irritations arrive. The subtext: you will need a rule because your instincts won’t reliably carry you there.
Context matters: Barrie wrote in an era when British social life prized restraint, propriety, and a stiff upper lip that could look a lot like emotional starvation. His theater often smuggled tenderness into a culture suspicious of it. This line offers an alternative etiquette: not politeness, but generosity; not niceness, but attention.
Its durability comes from how small it sounds and how radical it is. “A little” lowers the barrier to entry; anyone can overpay in kindness by a penny. But repeated daily, that penny becomes a countercultural practice: choosing compassion even when you could get away with indifference.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Barrie, James M. (2026, January 15). Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shall-we-make-a-new-rule-of-life-from-tonight-6786/
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Barrie, James M. "Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shall-we-make-a-new-rule-of-life-from-tonight-6786/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shall-we-make-a-new-rule-of-life-from-tonight-6786/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








