"Share everything. Don't take things that aren't yours. Put things back where you found them"
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Fulghum’s genius is to smuggle an ethics syllabus into the sing-song cadence of kindergarten rules. “Share everything” lands first because it’s the hardest ask, not the easiest. It’s not just about toys; it’s an argument against the adult fantasy of absolute ownership. In three short imperatives, he sketches a whole civic worldview: life is communal, property is provisional, and your job is to leave the room decent for the next person.
The syntax matters. No qualifiers, no loopholes, no legalese. That simplicity is the point. These aren’t policies; they’re reflexes. Fulghum is betting that moral behavior is less about grand principles than about ingrained habits: the small, boring disciplines that keep society from turning into a constant low-grade heist. “Don’t take things that aren’t yours” sounds obvious until you widen the lens to credit, attention, labor, land, history. The line quietly indicts the polite forms of theft we normalize when the taking is sanitized by bureaucracy or status.
“Put things back where you found them” is the sleeper. It’s a rule about tidiness that doubles as an environmental ethic and a social one: don’t externalize your mess. Clean up your consequences. It’s also a rebuke to the modern appetite for disruption as a virtue; not everything needs to be “moved fast” if what you’re really doing is leaving wreckage.
Contextually, Fulghum’s broader project (especially in All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten) is to reframe morality as practical, everyday stewardship. The subtext is wistful but not naive: we already know the rules. We just keep finding adult ways to pretend we don’t.
The syntax matters. No qualifiers, no loopholes, no legalese. That simplicity is the point. These aren’t policies; they’re reflexes. Fulghum is betting that moral behavior is less about grand principles than about ingrained habits: the small, boring disciplines that keep society from turning into a constant low-grade heist. “Don’t take things that aren’t yours” sounds obvious until you widen the lens to credit, attention, labor, land, history. The line quietly indicts the polite forms of theft we normalize when the taking is sanitized by bureaucracy or status.
“Put things back where you found them” is the sleeper. It’s a rule about tidiness that doubles as an environmental ethic and a social one: don’t externalize your mess. Clean up your consequences. It’s also a rebuke to the modern appetite for disruption as a virtue; not everything needs to be “moved fast” if what you’re really doing is leaving wreckage.
Contextually, Fulghum’s broader project (especially in All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten) is to reframe morality as practical, everyday stewardship. The subtext is wistful but not naive: we already know the rules. We just keep finding adult ways to pretend we don’t.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Robert Fulghum, "All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten" (1988) — opening list of kindergarten rules includes: "Share everything; Don't take things that aren't yours; Put things back where you found them." |
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