"She had already allowed her delectable lover to pluck that flower which, so different from the rose to which it is nevertheless sometimes compared, has not the same faculty of being reborn each spring"
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The intent isn’t tenderness; it’s irony sharpened to cruelty. “Delectable lover” sounds like indulgence, but it also makes her a dish and him a consumer. The verb “allowed” pretends at agency while keeping the scene inside a patriarchal accounting ledger: she “permits” the act, yet the consequence is defined as irreversible loss. De Sade’s favorite trick is to dress coercion and cynicism in the perfumed register of pastoral romance, then let the underlying violence show through the lace.
Context matters: writing in an era obsessed with female chastity as social capital, de Sade both exploits and caricatures that obsession. He’s not simply moralizing or celebrating libertinage; he’s staging a cultural hypocrisy where male pleasure is framed as natural appetite and female sexuality as a fragile object that, once taken, cannot be socially “reborn.” The line works because it makes the reader complicit in recognizing the metaphor’s elegance even as it indicts the world that made such elegance legible.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sade, Marquis de. (2026, January 17). She had already allowed her delectable lover to pluck that flower which, so different from the rose to which it is nevertheless sometimes compared, has not the same faculty of being reborn each spring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-had-already-allowed-her-delectable-lover-to-24196/
Chicago Style
Sade, Marquis de. "She had already allowed her delectable lover to pluck that flower which, so different from the rose to which it is nevertheless sometimes compared, has not the same faculty of being reborn each spring." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-had-already-allowed-her-delectable-lover-to-24196/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"She had already allowed her delectable lover to pluck that flower which, so different from the rose to which it is nevertheless sometimes compared, has not the same faculty of being reborn each spring." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-had-already-allowed-her-delectable-lover-to-24196/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








