"She hates me and you hate me, but you all love Harry. Nobody loves me"
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The line’s intent is pressure: a bid to make the listener feel culpable for preferring someone else. It’s also a kind of hostage note in miniature. When Rothstein says “Nobody loves me,” he’s not asking for comfort; he’s establishing motive. Love, in this worldview, is a social currency that predicts who gets protected, who gets forgiven, who gets made into a legend.
The subtext is brutal self-awareness. Rothstein’s reputation - the man behind the curtain, the fixer, the alleged architect of rigged outcomes - makes him useful but not lovable. He’s describing the cost of being the adult in a room full of heroes: you can arrange the world, even profit from it, but you don’t get the clean pleasure of being cheered. The sentence exposes a gangster-era paradox: fame rewards the face, not the hand that moves the money.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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Rothstein, Arnold. (n.d.). She hates me and you hate me, but you all love Harry. Nobody loves me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-hates-me-and-you-hate-me-but-you-all-love-162874/
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Rothstein, Arnold. "She hates me and you hate me, but you all love Harry. Nobody loves me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-hates-me-and-you-hate-me-but-you-all-love-162874/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"She hates me and you hate me, but you all love Harry. Nobody loves me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-hates-me-and-you-hate-me-but-you-all-love-162874/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.










