"She said she was going out, and would get the dinner. That is the last I saw her, or said anything to her"
About this Quote
Then comes the hard turn: “That is the last I saw her.” The rhythm tightens, the temperature drops. It’s a narrative guillotine: before/after, presence/absence, no connective tissue. The add-on - “or said anything to her” - is doing legal work. It doesn’t just claim she didn’t see her again; it pre-emptively narrows the avenues for interrogation. No conversation means no argument. No argument means no heat. No heat means no motive.
As context, it lands in a culture that treated women’s domestic routines as both invisible and morally legible: if the kitchen calendar stays intact, the person must be intact, too. Borden leverages that assumption, offering a scene so banal it sounds truthful. The subtext is colder: memory as strategy, minimalism as protection. In a case where the public wanted melodrama, she supplies chores and silence - and dares you to prove what happened in the gap.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. (2026, January 16). She said she was going out, and would get the dinner. That is the last I saw her, or said anything to her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-said-she-was-going-out-and-would-get-the-114851/
Chicago Style
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. "She said she was going out, and would get the dinner. That is the last I saw her, or said anything to her." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-said-she-was-going-out-and-would-get-the-114851/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"She said she was going out, and would get the dinner. That is the last I saw her, or said anything to her." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-said-she-was-going-out-and-would-get-the-114851/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








