"She wanted us to feel we were above everyone in the town. She really did tell us that we were related to Chief Justice John Marshall, and that may have been true. I never did bother to find out"
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Wray’s “she wanted us to feel” does quiet work. It frames class not as fact but as choreography: a parent scripting confidence (or superiority) into children who might otherwise feel ordinary. Dropping “Chief Justice John Marshall” is a particularly American kind of credentialing, less about money than legitimacy, a way of laundering pride through the nation’s founding mythology. “And that may have been true” keeps the door cracked open; the claim isn’t outright mocked, just treated as beside the point.
The subtext is generational and gendered. Mothers in constrained social landscapes often used lineage and manners as portable capital, a defense against invisibility. Wray, looking back as an actress who actually did achieve public elevation, can afford to be wry about the old strategy. Her indifference isn’t anti-history; it’s anti-snobbery. She implies that identity built on inherited proximity to greatness is flimsy compared to the life you make - and she delivers it with the breezy authority of someone who’s seen how easy it is to manufacture prestige and how little it should matter.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wray, Fay. (2026, January 17). She wanted us to feel we were above everyone in the town. She really did tell us that we were related to Chief Justice John Marshall, and that may have been true. I never did bother to find out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-wanted-us-to-feel-we-were-above-everyone-in-51086/
Chicago Style
Wray, Fay. "She wanted us to feel we were above everyone in the town. She really did tell us that we were related to Chief Justice John Marshall, and that may have been true. I never did bother to find out." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-wanted-us-to-feel-we-were-above-everyone-in-51086/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"She wanted us to feel we were above everyone in the town. She really did tell us that we were related to Chief Justice John Marshall, and that may have been true. I never did bother to find out." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/she-wanted-us-to-feel-we-were-above-everyone-in-51086/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.



