"Show me a better man. Name one and I am answered; but do not point, as a disqualification, to the very facts which make this man fit beyond all others"
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The subtext is pure Gilded Age realism. Conkling, a Stalwart boss and master of Senate patronage, is defending a kind of political masculinity built on dominance, loyalty, and the hard use of power. He's not asking for a saint; he's asking for a winner. The argument assumes politics is a battlefield where the qualities that offend polite society - ruthlessness, strategic stubbornness, appetite for control - are precisely what keep allies protected and adversaries in line.
Context matters because Conkling lived inside a party system where "fitness" often meant the ability to command networks, distribute spoils, and stare down reformers with a straight face. His rhetorical trick is to collapse morality into effectiveness: virtue becomes the capacity to prevail. It's also a warning to critics: if you insist on judging by genteel standards, you'll disqualify the only people tough enough to govern the world as it is.
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Conkling, Roscoe. (2026, January 16). Show me a better man. Name one and I am answered; but do not point, as a disqualification, to the very facts which make this man fit beyond all others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-a-better-man-name-one-and-i-am-answered-124749/
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Conkling, Roscoe. "Show me a better man. Name one and I am answered; but do not point, as a disqualification, to the very facts which make this man fit beyond all others." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-a-better-man-name-one-and-i-am-answered-124749/.
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"Show me a better man. Name one and I am answered; but do not point, as a disqualification, to the very facts which make this man fit beyond all others." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-a-better-man-name-one-and-i-am-answered-124749/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.













