"Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people"
About this Quote
The intent is to reclaim a disreputable practice by giving it a humanistic alibi. Gossip, in Walters’ formulation, is the informal research and social glue that keeps us tracking motives, alliances, betrayals - the stuff of character. The subtext is sly: refusing to gossip can be read as performative purity, a way to opt out of the messy intimacy required to actually know people. Walters treats that mess as evidence of care. If you’re invested, you talk; if you’re indifferent, you don’t bother.
Context matters. Walters helped pioneer a TV-news culture where personality was a beat, not a distraction. Her interviews traded in feelings, marriage, infidelity, ambition - topics critics often dismissed as "soft", especially when packaged by a woman. This quote doubles as a defense of that allegedly trivial domain: people are the story, and the story lives in the unguarded, chatty margins.
Still, the line has a reporter’s blind spot. Not all gossip is curiosity; plenty is surveillance, status management, or cruelty dressed as concern. Walters’ brilliance is in daring us to admit why we listen anyway: because other people’s lives are how we practice interpreting our own.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walters, Barbara. (2026, January 15). Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-someone-who-never-gossips-and-i-will-show-144837/
Chicago Style
Walters, Barbara. "Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-someone-who-never-gossips-and-i-will-show-144837/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/show-me-someone-who-never-gossips-and-i-will-show-144837/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.











