"Shows can come and go. They can be a hit and then in three years, gone. There's some comfort in having the stability of a job and having children. It's a double-edged sword"
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The pivot to “stability of a job and having children” lands because it refuses the usual celebrity script where ambition is pure and family is a soft-focus accessory. Flockhart frames stability as comfort, but not salvation. That’s the subtext: domestic life can anchor you when the work evaporates, yet it also fixes you in place when the next opportunity demands total mobility. In acting, flexibility is currency: last-minute auditions, months on location, the constant need to be “available.” Children and a steady job are fulfilling, but they don’t negotiate with pilot season.
Calling it a “double-edged sword” is less a lament than a sober self-assessment of trade-offs women in entertainment are still expected to handle gracefully and silently. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the myth that you can optimize every lane at once: career heat, personal peace, and cultural visibility. Her intent is practical, almost managerial. She’s reminding you that the real cliffhanger isn’t the season finale; it’s what happens when the phone stops ringing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Flockhart, Calista. (2026, January 17). Shows can come and go. They can be a hit and then in three years, gone. There's some comfort in having the stability of a job and having children. It's a double-edged sword. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shows-can-come-and-go-they-can-be-a-hit-and-then-45694/
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Flockhart, Calista. "Shows can come and go. They can be a hit and then in three years, gone. There's some comfort in having the stability of a job and having children. It's a double-edged sword." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shows-can-come-and-go-they-can-be-a-hit-and-then-45694/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Shows can come and go. They can be a hit and then in three years, gone. There's some comfort in having the stability of a job and having children. It's a double-edged sword." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/shows-can-come-and-go-they-can-be-a-hit-and-then-45694/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




