"Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them"
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The line’s quiet provocation is in its brisk economics: “nothing so well worth having” reduces the whole menu of Renaissance aspirations - land, titles, patronage, even virtue - to a single best investment. Then comes the hard-edged counsel: “never lose a chance.” That’s not sentimental; it’s opportunistic, almost predatory in its pragmatism. Guicciardini isn’t urging you to be lovable. He’s urging you to be alert. Friendship becomes a practice of continual acquisition, built in the cracks of daily encounters, favors, and shared risks.
Subtext: the world is unstable, so bet on people. In an era when alliances shifted with marriages, bribes, and papal elections, “friend” often meant something closer to “reliable node in your network” than a soulmate. Yet the sentence works because it smuggles tenderness into realism. It doesn’t deny affection; it assumes the best version of self-interest, where generosity and strategy overlap.
Guicciardini’s intent feels less like moral instruction than survival advice from someone who’s seen how lonely “power” gets when the political weather changes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Verified source: Counsels and Reflections (Francesco Guicciardini, 1890)
Evidence: Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them. (Page 42 (item/aphorism 14)). This English wording appears in Ninian Hill Thomson’s translation of Guicciardini’s Ricordi (often rendered in English as "Counsels and Reflections"). In the PDF scan, the quote is numbered as aphorism/reflection 14 and printed on page 42; the following lines expand the thought: “For men are brought into constant contact with one another, and friends help and foes hinder at times and in places where you least expect it.” The underlying work (Ricordi) was written earlier (16th century) and first published in an authentic form in 1857 (Italian edition), but this specific, widely-circulated English phrasing is from the 1890 translation. Other candidates (1) Brain Teaser Cryptogram Puzzle (2022) compilation95.0% ... Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them. - Francesco Guicciardin... |
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