"Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give"
About this Quote
Coming from a First Lady who redefined the role as a public-facing job - traveling, reporting, lobbying, building coalitions - the quote carries an institutional sensibility. Roosevelt spent decades converting empathy into infrastructure: relief efforts, civil rights advocacy, postwar human rights frameworks. In that light, “the happiness that you are able to give” isn’t limited to small gestures. It hints at capacity: what you can do with your platform, your time, your access. Joy becomes a measure of civic usefulness, not just interpersonal warmth.
The sentence also slips in a pragmatic view of self-interest. She doesn’t deny the ego; she recruits it. If helping others feels good, then cultivate that feedback loop on purpose. It’s a rebuttal to the idea that morality requires self-denial, and a warning against performative benevolence: don’t give randomly to feel virtuous; think about what actually improves someone’s life. Roosevelt’s ethic is less “be nice” than “be effective.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roosevelt, Eleanor. (2026, January 18). Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-you-get-more-joy-out-of-giving-joy-to-19286/
Chicago Style
Roosevelt, Eleanor. "Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-you-get-more-joy-out-of-giving-joy-to-19286/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-you-get-more-joy-out-of-giving-joy-to-19286/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.









