"Sitting around the house playing the wife and mother is driving me crazy"
About this Quote
Cline's "driving me crazy" isn't dainty dissatisfaction. It's a flare shot from inside the mid-century ideal of the contented homemaker, the one that advertising and etiquette manuals sold as destiny. Coming from a working musician, the line carries extra voltage: the house isn't merely a private space, it's professional exile. For women whose talent had to compete with a culture invested in their stillness, home could feel like an enforced hiatus with applause reserved for everyone else.
There's also a complicated tenderness implied by what she doesn't say. She doesn't deny love, or dismiss her family; she indicts the expectation that love should erase ambition, restlessness, or identity. The sentence is blunt because it's tired of negotiating. Cline's intent is not to shock but to tell the truth in a register women were often trained to soften. The subtext is a demand for personhood: let me be more than the part I'm cast in, even if I can sing it perfectly.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cline, Patsy. (2026, January 17). Sitting around the house playing the wife and mother is driving me crazy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-around-the-house-playing-the-wife-and-68692/
Chicago Style
Cline, Patsy. "Sitting around the house playing the wife and mother is driving me crazy." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-around-the-house-playing-the-wife-and-68692/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sitting around the house playing the wife and mother is driving me crazy." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-around-the-house-playing-the-wife-and-68692/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








