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"Sitting down to a meal with an Indian family is different from sitting down to a meal with a British family"

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Joffe’s line has the offhand snap of a travel observation, but it’s doing more cultural work than it admits. Coming from a director best known for staging empire at close range (The Killing Fields, The Mission), it reads like a thesis note for a scene: the dinner table as a soft battleground where power, history, and intimacy show up in the small stuff - who serves, who speaks, how long everyone lingers, what counts as “polite.”

The intent is comparative, but the subtext is about asymmetry. “Indian” and “British” aren’t just cuisines or manners; they’re categories built by colonial entanglement, migration, and class. By framing the difference as experiential (“sitting down”), Joffe shifts from abstract politics to embodied ritual. Meals aren’t neutral. They encode hierarchy and belonging: the British domestic ideal of restraint and privacy; the Indian stereotype (sometimes true, sometimes romanticized) of abundance, interdependence, and porous boundaries between guest and family. The line flirts with essentialism, and that risk is part of its charge: it exposes how quickly we reach for national character to explain discomfort.

As a filmmaker’s remark, it also suggests craft. Dinner scenes are efficient: they let a camera capture micro-gestures of inclusion or exclusion without speeches. In post-imperial Britain especially, food is where multiculturalism becomes everyday life - negotiated with jokes, awkwardness, and genuine warmth. Joffe’s sentence works because it’s simple enough to sound harmless while smuggling in a whole history of who gets to set the table.

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Joffe, Roland. (2026, January 18). Sitting down to a meal with an Indian family is different from sitting down to a meal with a British family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-down-to-a-meal-with-an-indian-family-is-16095/

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Joffe, Roland. "Sitting down to a meal with an Indian family is different from sitting down to a meal with a British family." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-down-to-a-meal-with-an-indian-family-is-16095/.

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"Sitting down to a meal with an Indian family is different from sitting down to a meal with a British family." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sitting-down-to-a-meal-with-an-indian-family-is-16095/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Roland Joffe (born November 17, 1945) is a Director from England.

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