"Smile, it's better than a poke in the eye"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t to dismiss suffering so much as to puncture self-importance. A clergyman telling you to smile could sound like sanctimony, the classic moral demand to perform cheerfulness. Horton dodges that trap by choosing an image that’s ridiculous and physical, making the advice feel like common sense instead of sermonizing. The subtext: life will hit you anyway; you can at least refuse to be entirely bullied by it. The smile becomes a small act of agency, not a mask.
Context matters. Horton lived through two world wars, the Great Depression, and the mid-century culture of stoicism that prized "keeping your chin up". His phrasing matches that era’s dark practicality: consolation without sentimentality. It’s also a quiet theological move. In Christian pastoral work, you rarely get to eliminate pain; you try to keep people oriented toward endurance, community, and a sliver of grace. Horton’s line turns grace into a compact bargain: no miracles promised, just a better option than needless injury.
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| Topic | Smile |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Horton, Douglas. (2026, January 17). Smile, it's better than a poke in the eye. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/smile-its-better-than-a-poke-in-the-eye-74307/
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Horton, Douglas. "Smile, it's better than a poke in the eye." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/smile-its-better-than-a-poke-in-the-eye-74307/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Smile, it's better than a poke in the eye." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/smile-its-better-than-a-poke-in-the-eye-74307/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







