"Smile, it's better than a poke in the eye"
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A smile framed as triage is a very clerical kind of wit: not a hymn to happiness, but a blunt reminder that you can choose a small mercy when bigger miseries are available. "Better than a poke in the eye" is deliberately lowbrow, almost vaudevillian, and that’s the point. Horton pulls the spiritual counsel down from the stained-glass register and plants it in the body, where pain is immediate and gratitude is measurable. You don’t smile because the world is fair; you smile because the alternative can be literally, stupidly worse.
The intent isn’t to dismiss suffering so much as to puncture self-importance. A clergyman telling you to smile could sound like sanctimony, the classic moral demand to perform cheerfulness. Horton dodges that trap by choosing an image that’s ridiculous and physical, making the advice feel like common sense instead of sermonizing. The subtext: life will hit you anyway; you can at least refuse to be entirely bullied by it. The smile becomes a small act of agency, not a mask.
Context matters. Horton lived through two world wars, the Great Depression, and the mid-century culture of stoicism that prized "keeping your chin up". His phrasing matches that era’s dark practicality: consolation without sentimentality. It’s also a quiet theological move. In Christian pastoral work, you rarely get to eliminate pain; you try to keep people oriented toward endurance, community, and a sliver of grace. Horton’s line turns grace into a compact bargain: no miracles promised, just a better option than needless injury.
The intent isn’t to dismiss suffering so much as to puncture self-importance. A clergyman telling you to smile could sound like sanctimony, the classic moral demand to perform cheerfulness. Horton dodges that trap by choosing an image that’s ridiculous and physical, making the advice feel like common sense instead of sermonizing. The subtext: life will hit you anyway; you can at least refuse to be entirely bullied by it. The smile becomes a small act of agency, not a mask.
Context matters. Horton lived through two world wars, the Great Depression, and the mid-century culture of stoicism that prized "keeping your chin up". His phrasing matches that era’s dark practicality: consolation without sentimentality. It’s also a quiet theological move. In Christian pastoral work, you rarely get to eliminate pain; you try to keep people oriented toward endurance, community, and a sliver of grace. Horton’s line turns grace into a compact bargain: no miracles promised, just a better option than needless injury.
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