"So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them"
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Then comes the ethical speed bump. “You can’t help them” is both practical and protective. Practical, because the rules demand neutrality; the host can’t tip the scales without breaking the game. Protective, because it draws a boundary between performance and responsibility. Television can spotlight need without solving it, and Martindale seems clear-eyed about that limitation. The show can give someone a chance, not a safety net.
“Root for them” is the compromise that makes the whole format palatable. It invites the audience into a safe, communal emotion - hope - while keeping the machinery of competition intact. Subtextually, Martindale is describing a cultural contract: we’ll turn strangers into protagonists for an hour, let viewers care, and convert that care into ratings, not relief. He doesn’t sound cynical, just honest about the distance between empathy and intervention that entertainment normalizes.
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Martindale, Wink. (2026, January 16). So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/
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Martindale, Wink. "So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/.
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"So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.









