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"So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them"

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Daytime TV sells itself as light entertainment, but Martindale is admitting the real product is managed intimacy. The line turns on a small, crucial distinction: feeling for someone versus helping them. In the game-show universe he helped define, contestants arrive as ordinary people with rent due, sick parents, big dreams - and the set turns those private stakes into public narrative. Spend “any number of days” with them and sympathy becomes inevitable, almost physical. Martindale frames that bond as less a choice than a reflex: “you can’t help but feel.” That’s the host’s job description in plain clothes.

Then comes the ethical speed bump. “You can’t help them” is both practical and protective. Practical, because the rules demand neutrality; the host can’t tip the scales without breaking the game. Protective, because it draws a boundary between performance and responsibility. Television can spotlight need without solving it, and Martindale seems clear-eyed about that limitation. The show can give someone a chance, not a safety net.

“Root for them” is the compromise that makes the whole format palatable. It invites the audience into a safe, communal emotion - hope - while keeping the machinery of competition intact. Subtextually, Martindale is describing a cultural contract: we’ll turn strangers into protagonists for an hour, let viewers care, and convert that care into ratings, not relief. He doesn’t sound cynical, just honest about the distance between empathy and intervention that entertainment normalizes.

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Martindale, Wink. (2026, January 16). So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/

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Martindale, Wink. "So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/.

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"So after being with somebody for any number of days like that, you can't help but feel for them. You can't help them, but you certainly can root for them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-after-being-with-somebody-for-any-number-of-136749/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Wink Martindale (born December 4, 1934) is a Entertainer from USA.

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