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"So far, at least, I haven't found a way to tell my kind of stories without making them both sad and funny"

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Solondz is admitting a stylistic compulsion that doubles as a worldview: if he’s telling the truth as he sees it, the joke and the wound have to land in the same beat. The line reads like a modest shrug, but the subtext is bolder: “sad” and “funny” aren’t ingredients he sprinkles in for balance, they’re fused at the source. His stories don’t toggle between comedy and tragedy; they expose how easily one becomes the other when you stop pretending people are coherent.

The “so far, at least” is doing quiet work. It frames his approach as a practical problem, not an auteur manifesto, which makes the statement feel less like brand-building and more like a reluctant diagnosis. He’s not claiming cleverness; he’s confessing limitation, or maybe honesty. The comedy becomes a way of surviving the material without sentimentalizing it. The sadness becomes a way of keeping the laughs from turning into cruelty-for-cruelty’s sake.

Contextually, this sits in the lineage of American indie filmmaking where discomfort is the point and the punchline is a trapdoor. Solondz’s worlds are populated by people who want dignity and keep getting handed humiliation. The funny parts work because they’re recognizably social: the awkward pauses, the petty self-deceptions, the obscene politeness. The sad parts work because the camera doesn’t let anyone off the hook with catharsis. What he’s really saying is that, for him, sincerity has a dark sense of humor - and comedy, if it’s honest, should leave a bruise.

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Solondz, Todd. (n.d.). So far, at least, I haven't found a way to tell my kind of stories without making them both sad and funny. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-far-at-least-i-havent-found-a-way-to-tell-my-145323/

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Solondz, Todd. "So far, at least, I haven't found a way to tell my kind of stories without making them both sad and funny." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-far-at-least-i-havent-found-a-way-to-tell-my-145323/.

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"So far, at least, I haven't found a way to tell my kind of stories without making them both sad and funny." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-far-at-least-i-havent-found-a-way-to-tell-my-145323/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Todd Solondz (born October 15, 1959) is a Writer from USA.

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