"So I have a friend who works for me once a week. She's got e-mail, so anybody that must send an e-mail, they send it to her and she faxes it to me. Sounds like a long way of doing things, but it works for me"
About this Quote
The specific intent feels less like a confession of ineptitude than a boundary-setting move. E-mail isn’t framed as liberation but as obligation: “anybody that must send an e-mail.” That “must” carries the cultural pressure of the late-20th/early-2000s workplace, when digital communication stopped being optional and started being a loyalty test to the present. McPartland answers with a system that preserves her autonomy. She doesn’t adapt her life to the machine; she assigns the machine a role in her life.
The subtext is about control of attention, not fear of technology. A once-a-week filter turns the always-on drip of messages into a manageable rhythm, closer to rehearsal than to surveillance. It’s also quietly classed and collaborative: she can do this because her work affords help, and because she values delegation, a core skill in ensemble music.
Context matters: McPartland built a career on listening. This quote defends listening time against the tyranny of the inbox, with humor as the soft armor.
Quote Details
| Topic | Funny Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McPartland, Marian. (2026, January 15). So I have a friend who works for me once a week. She's got e-mail, so anybody that must send an e-mail, they send it to her and she faxes it to me. Sounds like a long way of doing things, but it works for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-have-a-friend-who-works-for-me-once-a-week-166246/
Chicago Style
McPartland, Marian. "So I have a friend who works for me once a week. She's got e-mail, so anybody that must send an e-mail, they send it to her and she faxes it to me. Sounds like a long way of doing things, but it works for me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-have-a-friend-who-works-for-me-once-a-week-166246/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So I have a friend who works for me once a week. She's got e-mail, so anybody that must send an e-mail, they send it to her and she faxes it to me. Sounds like a long way of doing things, but it works for me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-have-a-friend-who-works-for-me-once-a-week-166246/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.








