"So I still seized the power, but I felt that if I officially made myself the boss, in black and white, it would be too intimidating for the other producers and the other men who worked on the show. In other words, I had the power, but I gave them the title"
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The subtext is brutally pragmatic: institutional recognition of female leadership can be more destabilizing to a crew than leadership itself. So Thomas chooses a workaround: keep decision-making control, distribute symbolic status. "In black and white" is doing heavy lifting - the paper trail is the threat, not the competence. Credit, titles, and visible hierarchy are the currencies that trigger defensiveness and resentment; influence can be tolerated if it feels informal, deniable, almost accidental.
Contextually, it's a snapshot of how cultural progress often happens in the industry: not with a dramatic feminist mic-drop, but through negotiated optics. Thomas isn't confessing to timidity; she's describing a survival technique that also functions as leverage. By giving "them the title", she buys operational freedom. It's an indictment and a manual at once: a reminder that leadership isn't only about having power - it's about managing people's fear of seeing who has it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thomas, Marlo. (2026, January 15). So I still seized the power, but I felt that if I officially made myself the boss, in black and white, it would be too intimidating for the other producers and the other men who worked on the show. In other words, I had the power, but I gave them the title. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-still-seized-the-power-but-i-felt-that-if-i-155521/
Chicago Style
Thomas, Marlo. "So I still seized the power, but I felt that if I officially made myself the boss, in black and white, it would be too intimidating for the other producers and the other men who worked on the show. In other words, I had the power, but I gave them the title." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-still-seized-the-power-but-i-felt-that-if-i-155521/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So I still seized the power, but I felt that if I officially made myself the boss, in black and white, it would be too intimidating for the other producers and the other men who worked on the show. In other words, I had the power, but I gave them the title." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-i-still-seized-the-power-but-i-felt-that-if-i-155521/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




