"So many people are walking around looking so grim all the time. I just never understand why"
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Coming from Boggs, a Louisiana congresswoman who navigated assassination-era trauma (her husband, Hale Boggs, disappeared in 1972), Washington hardball, and the gendered expectation to smile on command, the remark lands as more than a plea for cheerfulness. Its a critique of performative severity - the idea that seriousness must look miserable to count as authentic. In American politics, grimness often signals virtue: I am burdened by the nations problems, I am tougher than you, I am not here for fun. Boggs flips that logic. She implies that constant dourness is not evidence of responsibility but a social habit, even a small failure of imagination.
The line also hints at a retail-politics ethic: moods are contagious, and leaders set the weather. Boggs doesnt moralize; she wonders aloud. That rhetorical choice invites listeners to examine their own faces, their own politics, and whether the grudge-like aesthetic of adulthood is actually doing any work.
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Boggs, Lindy. (2026, January 16). So many people are walking around looking so grim all the time. I just never understand why. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-are-walking-around-looking-so-grim-88485/
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Boggs, Lindy. "So many people are walking around looking so grim all the time. I just never understand why." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-are-walking-around-looking-so-grim-88485/.
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"So many people are walking around looking so grim all the time. I just never understand why." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-are-walking-around-looking-so-grim-88485/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







