"So many people have said that to me, that what they really like about Alex is what she brings out in Marissa, and what this situation brings out in her, a hint of happiness and another side to her character"
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Wilde’s phrasing quietly reveals the machinery behind shipping and character attachment. Fans are often drawn to a relationship not because it’s balanced, but because it produces evidence. It testifies that a difficult character isn’t merely difficult; she’s wounded, complicated, capable of light. The subtext is that Marissa alone is too sharp an object for the audience to hold onto for long. Give her “another side,” and the viewer can keep loving her without feeling foolish.
The context matters: as an actress talking about audience response, Wilde is both grateful and slightly cornered by what people “really like.” She frames it as a discovery about Marissa, but it’s also a confession about spectatorship. We ask supporting characters, especially women, to be emotional crowbars. Their job is to pry open someone else’s interior life so the show - and we - can feel something safer than discomfort.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilde, Olivia. (2026, January 16). So many people have said that to me, that what they really like about Alex is what she brings out in Marissa, and what this situation brings out in her, a hint of happiness and another side to her character. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-have-said-that-to-me-that-what-130202/
Chicago Style
Wilde, Olivia. "So many people have said that to me, that what they really like about Alex is what she brings out in Marissa, and what this situation brings out in her, a hint of happiness and another side to her character." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-have-said-that-to-me-that-what-130202/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So many people have said that to me, that what they really like about Alex is what she brings out in Marissa, and what this situation brings out in her, a hint of happiness and another side to her character." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-people-have-said-that-to-me-that-what-130202/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



