"So many roads. So many detours. So many choices. So many mistakes"
About this Quote
The subtext is less self-pity than self-audit. "Roads" suggests possibility culture - the idea that life is an endless menu and the only real sin is picking wrong. "Detours" softens the blow; it implies narrative elasticity, the comfort that mistakes can be repurposed as plot. Then the last sentence refuses that comfort by naming the thing outright: mistakes. It’s a quiet rebuke to the curated-life myth where every choice is "right for the journey."
Context matters because Parker, as an actress tied to Sex and the City-era storytelling, comes from a cultural moment that sold empowerment through options: dating options, career options, identity options. This quote reads like the hangover from that ideology. Not anti-choice, just honest about the psychic cost of living as the constant CEO of your own life. It works because it’s plainspoken but rhythmically engineered: a confession that sounds like common sense, then stings like an indictment.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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Parker, Sarah Jessica. (2026, January 14). So many roads. So many detours. So many choices. So many mistakes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-roads-so-many-detours-so-many-choices-so-58451/
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Parker, Sarah Jessica. "So many roads. So many detours. So many choices. So many mistakes." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-roads-so-many-detours-so-many-choices-so-58451/.
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"So many roads. So many detours. So many choices. So many mistakes." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-roads-so-many-detours-so-many-choices-so-58451/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







