Parenting & Family Quote by Itzhak Perlman

A virtuoso admitting that childhood madness has more sources than music is Perlman doing something quietly radical: cutting the romantic cable between art and torment. Coming from one of the most revered classical musicians alive, the line punctures the familiar myth that genius is forged mainly in obsessive practice rooms and high-minded suffering. He’s not denying music’s intensity; he’s demoting it from singular villain to one stressor among many.

The phrasing matters. “So many things” widens the lens to the messy ecology of being young: family pressure, school hierarchies, bodily awkwardness, money, fear, boredom. “Drive you mad” is casual, almost comic, but it signals real overwhelm. Perlman’s sly move is the clause “not only music,” which lands like a corrective to anyone eager to blame the instrument, the teacher, or the repertoire. It’s also a gentle jab at the adult tendency to narrate childhood pain as a single issue with a neat fix.

Context deepens the point. Perlman, a polio survivor who built an extraordinary career in a tradition obsessed with discipline, knows what it means to have your life reduced to one defining story: the illness, the prodigy, the practice. This quote pushes back against that flattening. It suggests that young people aren’t one-track tragedies or projects to optimize; they’re whole environments, absorbing everything at once. The line’s power is its refusal to sanctify struggle. It makes room for a healthier reading of ambition: yes, music can be brutal, but so can childhood itself, and that complexity is the beginning of empathy.