"So many times you see beautiful lovemaking scenes with a lot of exposure or an awkward lovemaking scene, but I think it's very rare that you see it private"
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The key word is “private,” which sounds paradoxical in a medium built to show. Lee’s intent is to argue for a camera ethic: staging sex as something that belongs to the lovers first and to us only incidentally. Subtextually, he’s critiquing the industry’s voyeurism - the way even “tasteful” sex can become a kind of public speech, an announcement of desirability, plot relevance, or actor bravery. Privacy here doesn’t mean hiding bodies; it means protecting the emotional perimeter of the moment.
Context matters: Lee’s filmography (Brokeback Mountain, Lust, Caution) treats desire as both tender and dangerous, shaped by social scrutiny and political consequence. In that light, “rare” is an indictment. Cinema is crowded with sex, yet starved of intimacy that feels unexploited. Lee’s line is a quiet dare to directors: stop filming sex like a product demo or a confession booth, and start filming it like two people trying not to be seen.
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Lee, Ang. (n.d.). So many times you see beautiful lovemaking scenes with a lot of exposure or an awkward lovemaking scene, but I think it's very rare that you see it private. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-times-you-see-beautiful-lovemaking-scenes-121415/
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Lee, Ang. "So many times you see beautiful lovemaking scenes with a lot of exposure or an awkward lovemaking scene, but I think it's very rare that you see it private." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-times-you-see-beautiful-lovemaking-scenes-121415/.
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"So many times you see beautiful lovemaking scenes with a lot of exposure or an awkward lovemaking scene, but I think it's very rare that you see it private." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-many-times-you-see-beautiful-lovemaking-scenes-121415/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.




