"So much time is wasted on trying to be better than others"
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The intent is deceptively simple: redirect energy away from status contests and toward the work itself. The subtext is sharper. "Better than others" isn't just competitiveness; it's a lifestyle of anxious measurement, where identity gets outsourced to other people's scorecards. Wood frames that posture as waste, not sin, which is rhetorically smart. Calling it immoral invites defensiveness; calling it inefficient makes it sound like a bad investment. Nobody wants to be the person burning their limited hours on a rigged game.
The line also sneaks in a critique of how "improvement" gets sold. Self-betterment is supposed to be internal and craft-driven, but social media and celebrity culture turn it into a spectator sport: glow-ups, hot takes, clout accumulation. Wood's delivery (even on the page) feels anti-performative, which is the point. In an economy where attention is currency, choosing not to compete is a kind of soft rebellion - and a reminder that the real flex is doing something meaningful without needing it to be a victory over someone else.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wood, Elijah. (2026, January 16). So much time is wasted on trying to be better than others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-much-time-is-wasted-on-trying-to-be-better-130157/
Chicago Style
Wood, Elijah. "So much time is wasted on trying to be better than others." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-much-time-is-wasted-on-trying-to-be-better-130157/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So much time is wasted on trying to be better than others." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-much-time-is-wasted-on-trying-to-be-better-130157/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.














