"So on May 1, 1987, at Gary's invitation, I agreed to see him one last time - to confront him face-to-face about his sincerity and with the intention of ending our brief relationship"
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The phrasing “see him one last time” sounds almost tender until it’s immediately hardened by “to confront him face-to-face about his sincerity.” That’s the emotional core: not romance, but verification. “Sincerity” is doing double duty, signaling personal betrayal while also implying a public-facing lie. Given the era’s media frenzy around Gary Hart and the way women in political scandals were treated as accessories or predators, Rice is implicitly arguing for her own moral seriousness. She’s not a temptress in the story; she’s a person trying to establish truth in a situation already metastasizing into myth.
Even “brief relationship” is a defensive compression, minimizing the affair’s scope without denying it. The intent isn’t confession or revenge; it’s narrative control. Rice is trying to reclaim the right to define what happened before tabloids, campaigns, and late-night punchlines do it for her. The subtext is plain: in a public scandal, your only leverage is precision.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rice, Donna. (2026, January 17). So on May 1, 1987, at Gary's invitation, I agreed to see him one last time - to confront him face-to-face about his sincerity and with the intention of ending our brief relationship. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-on-may-1-1987-at-garys-invitation-i-agreed-to-43040/
Chicago Style
Rice, Donna. "So on May 1, 1987, at Gary's invitation, I agreed to see him one last time - to confront him face-to-face about his sincerity and with the intention of ending our brief relationship." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-on-may-1-1987-at-garys-invitation-i-agreed-to-43040/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So on May 1, 1987, at Gary's invitation, I agreed to see him one last time - to confront him face-to-face about his sincerity and with the intention of ending our brief relationship." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-on-may-1-1987-at-garys-invitation-i-agreed-to-43040/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



