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"So that ends my first experience of matrimony, which I always thought a highly over-rated performance"

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A dancer calling marriage a "performance" is more than a clever put-down; it’s a category error made deliberately. Isadora Duncan frames matrimony in the language of the stage, where roles are rehearsed, expectations are rigid, and the audience (family, church, polite society) gets a vote. The joke lands because it’s not just that marriage disappointed her; it’s that the institution demanded choreography she didn’t consent to. For someone who built a career on freeing the body from Victorian stiffness, matrimony reads like an old costume: heavy, symbolic, and designed to keep you moving within narrow marks.

The line’s bite comes from its offhand finality: "So that ends..". like she’s wrapping a run of shows that didn’t sell. The casual tone is the knife. She refuses the tragic framing women were supposed to adopt when a marriage failed. Instead, she treats it as a reviewable gig, and she’s the critic.

Calling it "highly over-rated" also winks at the cultural hype machine around marriage in her era, when wedlock was packaged as a moral destination and a woman’s primary credential. Duncan’s subtext is that the supposed prestige is inflated: the promises don’t match the lived reality, especially for a woman whose artistic identity depended on autonomy.

Context matters: early 20th-century bohemia, celebrity scandal, and a public life lived against convention. The quip works because it compresses rebellion into a single pivot of diction. Matrimony isn’t sacred here. It’s theater, and she’s walking offstage.

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Duncan, Isadora. (2026, January 17). So that ends my first experience of matrimony, which I always thought a highly over-rated performance. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-that-ends-my-first-experience-of-matrimony-56202/

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Duncan, Isadora. "So that ends my first experience of matrimony, which I always thought a highly over-rated performance." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-that-ends-my-first-experience-of-matrimony-56202/.

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"So that ends my first experience of matrimony, which I always thought a highly over-rated performance." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-that-ends-my-first-experience-of-matrimony-56202/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Isadora Duncan (May 26, 1877 - September 19, 1927) was a Dancer from USA.

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