"So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers"
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The intent is quietly leveling. He’s not praising fathers or indicting mothers; he’s trying to reset the baseline assumption that one side is doing all the work. Yet the subtext is thornier than the symmetry suggests. “About the same” can read as vindication for dads who feel under-credited, or as a flattening of differences that many women experience as decisive: the mental load, the always-on scheduling, the social expectation of being the default parent. Equal hours don’t automatically mean equal agency, equal exhaustion, or equal recognition.
Context matters, too. A musician’s perspective hints at a life where work is irregular, evenings are busy, and home life must be negotiated around rehearsals, gigs, travel. In that world, time becomes a particularly sharp currency, and partnership becomes logistical, not just sentimental. Levine’s claim functions less as a definitive sociological verdict than as a provocation: if the hours are similar, why does credit still feel so uneven - and why do the stories we tell about parenting lag behind the way many families actually run?
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Levine, James. (2026, January 16). So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-the-total-number-of-hours-spent-on-the-stuff-105982/
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Levine, James. "So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-the-total-number-of-hours-spent-on-the-stuff-105982/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-the-total-number-of-hours-spent-on-the-stuff-105982/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.



