"So there was a fire inside me. And that fire inside you, it can be turned into a negative form or a positive form. And I gradually realised that I had this fire and that it had to be used in a positive way"
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The key move is the shift from possession to stewardship. “There was a fire inside me” is instinct, temperament, wiring. Then: “it can be turned” and “I gradually realised” introduces agency and time. Gradually is doing a lot of work. It implies misfires, maybe even collateral damage, before the lesson sticks. In a sports context, that subtext is familiar: the competitor who learns the hard way that rage doesn’t equal focus, that obsession can corrode relationships, that winning doesn’t automatically alchemize inner turmoil into meaning.
The quote also sneaks in a quiet argument about masculinity and control. He doesn’t say “I learned to put it out.” He says it “had to be used” - like fuel. That framing turns emotional intensity from a private problem into an instrument with a purpose, aligning personal discipline with performance, leadership, and longevity. It’s a veteran’s version of ambition: not less fire, but better aim.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Newcombe, John. (2026, January 15). So there was a fire inside me. And that fire inside you, it can be turned into a negative form or a positive form. And I gradually realised that I had this fire and that it had to be used in a positive way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-there-was-a-fire-inside-me-and-that-fire-158702/
Chicago Style
Newcombe, John. "So there was a fire inside me. And that fire inside you, it can be turned into a negative form or a positive form. And I gradually realised that I had this fire and that it had to be used in a positive way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-there-was-a-fire-inside-me-and-that-fire-158702/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So there was a fire inside me. And that fire inside you, it can be turned into a negative form or a positive form. And I gradually realised that I had this fire and that it had to be used in a positive way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-there-was-a-fire-inside-me-and-that-fire-158702/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






