"So what are we given? We're also given, my generation, the disillusionment of our parents"
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The subtext is less accusation than diagnosis. She’s pointing at a cultural mood where kids grow up under the shadow of broken promises their parents already lived through - economic instability, divorce-normalization, politics-as-theater, the comedown after the postwar American dream. If your parents’ big story ended in disappointment, optimism stops feeling like innocence and starts looking like naivete. That’s a harsher inheritance than any strict rulebook, because it doesn’t tell you what to do; it tells you what not to believe.
Contextually, it fits Jewel’s broader persona: a 90s songwriter associated with raw confession and working-class realism. She’s not selling rebellion; she’s naming the fatigue underneath it. The line’s power is its plainspoken generosity: it widens empathy across generations while still holding the older one accountable for the atmosphere they left behind.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kilcher, Jewel. (2026, January 17). So what are we given? We're also given, my generation, the disillusionment of our parents. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-are-we-given-were-also-given-my-69813/
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Kilcher, Jewel. "So what are we given? We're also given, my generation, the disillusionment of our parents." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-are-we-given-were-also-given-my-69813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So what are we given? We're also given, my generation, the disillusionment of our parents." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-are-we-given-were-also-given-my-69813/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







