"So what really gets me is these chickenhawks, who sent our kids to die without ever serving in a war themselves. They don't know what it's all about"
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The intent is accusation, but the subtext is a deeper indictment of distance. “Sent our kids to die” makes the chain of command feel intimate and transactional, not abstract and strategic. Sheehan doesn’t argue about troop levels or intelligence failures; she argues about accountability, and she does it through the oldest democratic test: if you can demand blood, can you imagine it up close? The “our kids” phrasing is also tactical. It claims a collective ownership over the cost of war and dares listeners to either join that “our” or admit they’re spectators.
Context matters: Sheehan became a national figure after her son Casey was killed in Iraq and she confronted the Bush administration publicly. Her authority isn’t institutional; it’s experiential, born from grief turned into political pressure. “They don’t know what it’s all about” is less a factual claim than a denial of legitimacy. It suggests that expertise without exposure breeds cruelty, and that a country can’t outsource consequence forever without corroding its conscience.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sheehan, Cindy. (2026, February 16). So what really gets me is these chickenhawks, who sent our kids to die without ever serving in a war themselves. They don't know what it's all about. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-really-gets-me-is-these-chickenhawks-who-141937/
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Sheehan, Cindy. "So what really gets me is these chickenhawks, who sent our kids to die without ever serving in a war themselves. They don't know what it's all about." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-really-gets-me-is-these-chickenhawks-who-141937/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So what really gets me is these chickenhawks, who sent our kids to die without ever serving in a war themselves. They don't know what it's all about." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-what-really-gets-me-is-these-chickenhawks-who-141937/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.







