"So when I told my parents I wanted to go into acting because I was flunking out of my first year of junior college, they were relieved that I had picked something other than joining the army. But I can't imagine how they had high hopes for me"
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The line also quietly maps the social reality of Hoffman’s era. Acting wasn’t an obvious respectable fallback in mid-century America, especially not for a struggling student. So the parents’ relief reads as pragmatic triage, not artistic endorsement. Their “high hopes” become a kind of mythology families tell themselves to keep moving: we believe you’ll be fine because the alternatives are worse.
Hoffman’s intent feels twofold. He’s puncturing the glamour of origin stories (no destiny, no early genius), and he’s acknowledging the emotional oddity of being believed in when you don’t feel believable. The humor is defensive, but it also humanizes him: behind the iconic roles is a person who remembers being a mess, and who still doesn’t quite trust the narrative that it all made sense. That distrust is what gives the quote its bite.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hoffman, Dustin. (2026, January 16). So when I told my parents I wanted to go into acting because I was flunking out of my first year of junior college, they were relieved that I had picked something other than joining the army. But I can't imagine how they had high hopes for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-told-my-parents-i-wanted-to-go-into-104382/
Chicago Style
Hoffman, Dustin. "So when I told my parents I wanted to go into acting because I was flunking out of my first year of junior college, they were relieved that I had picked something other than joining the army. But I can't imagine how they had high hopes for me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-told-my-parents-i-wanted-to-go-into-104382/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So when I told my parents I wanted to go into acting because I was flunking out of my first year of junior college, they were relieved that I had picked something other than joining the army. But I can't imagine how they had high hopes for me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-told-my-parents-i-wanted-to-go-into-104382/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




