"So when I was 13, I basically left home and never returned and lived at home again. I would come home for a week at Christmas and two weeks in the summer only"
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The specific intent feels less like confession than clarification. By anchoring the timeline at 13, he signals how early autonomy - or displacement - became his baseline. Then he adds the strict schedule of return visits, “a week at Christmas and two weeks in the summer,” like a custody arrangement or school calendar. Home isn’t a place he belongs to; it’s an appointment. The precision makes it more unsettling. If you can quantify your childhood like vacation days, something has been reorganized: family as institution, not refuge.
Subtext: survival and self-authorship. Whether the departure was choice, necessity, or escape, the sentence insists on agency. “I basically left” keeps the details offstage, but “never returned” plants a flag. It’s the kind of biography beat that explains an artist’s hunger without romanticizing it: the early lesson that you can’t wait to be taken in, you have to make somewhere else.
Context matters because child independence at 13 is culturally anomalous in the U.S. postwar era. The line reads as a quiet indictment of whatever made that feel possible - or required - and a preview of how a performer learns to live unmoored, traveling between temporary worlds.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jurasik, Peter. (2026, January 15). So when I was 13, I basically left home and never returned and lived at home again. I would come home for a week at Christmas and two weeks in the summer only. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-was-13-i-basically-left-home-and-never-151984/
Chicago Style
Jurasik, Peter. "So when I was 13, I basically left home and never returned and lived at home again. I would come home for a week at Christmas and two weeks in the summer only." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-was-13-i-basically-left-home-and-never-151984/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So when I was 13, I basically left home and never returned and lived at home again. I would come home for a week at Christmas and two weeks in the summer only." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-was-13-i-basically-left-home-and-never-151984/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.







