"So when I write characters and situations and relationships, I try to sort of utilize what I know about the world, limited as it is, and what I hear from my friends and see with my relatives"
About this Quote
What makes the line work is its chain of verbs: "know", "hear", "see". It maps a hierarchy of proximity. You start with what you can claim directly, then expand through social osmosis, then observe the intimate theater of family. Friends and relatives aren’t named as "research subjects" but as messy, unavoidable inputs. That’s Kaufman’s whole brand: interiority contaminated by reality, autobiography crosswired with invention. He isn’t promising authenticity as accuracy; he’s after authenticity as recognition, the feeling that a character’s weirdness has fingerprints.
Context matters: Kaufman writes in a tradition of meta-storytelling where the biggest threat is solipsism disguised as profundity. His movies obsess over self-conscious narrators, creative paralysis, and the humiliations of wanting to be understood. This quote frames that obsession as craft discipline. It’s a reminder that even the most surreal narrative needs a social feedback loop, not to sanitize the work, but to keep it human-shaped.
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| Topic | Writing |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kaufman, Charlie. (2026, January 15). So when I write characters and situations and relationships, I try to sort of utilize what I know about the world, limited as it is, and what I hear from my friends and see with my relatives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-write-characters-and-situations-and-130856/
Chicago Style
Kaufman, Charlie. "So when I write characters and situations and relationships, I try to sort of utilize what I know about the world, limited as it is, and what I hear from my friends and see with my relatives." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-write-characters-and-situations-and-130856/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So when I write characters and situations and relationships, I try to sort of utilize what I know about the world, limited as it is, and what I hear from my friends and see with my relatives." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-i-write-characters-and-situations-and-130856/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

