"So, when the discussion about not using the term feminist came up at a conference workshop, I couldn't believe it. The more I listened, the more I felt the need to express my passion about my identity as a feminist"
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As an actress, Buckley understands labels as both costume and contract. Words frame how an audience reads you; they also determine what you’re allowed to say next. That’s why her insistence on “my identity as a feminist” matters. She’s refusing the common compromise offered to women in public-facing careers: be for equality, but don’t be “that kind of woman.” The line “the more I listened” builds a slow-burn indignation, suggesting she’s watched this rhetorical retreat happen in real time, in polite tones, among people who likely consider themselves allies.
The quote works because it captures a familiar cultural trade: respectability in exchange for self-erasure. Buckley’s “passion” isn’t decorative; it’s the engine of reclamation. She’s saying the word is part of the fight, because the fight is partly about who gets to name reality.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buckley, Betty. (2026, January 17). So, when the discussion about not using the term feminist came up at a conference workshop, I couldn't believe it. The more I listened, the more I felt the need to express my passion about my identity as a feminist. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-the-discussion-about-not-using-the-term-36430/
Chicago Style
Buckley, Betty. "So, when the discussion about not using the term feminist came up at a conference workshop, I couldn't believe it. The more I listened, the more I felt the need to express my passion about my identity as a feminist." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-the-discussion-about-not-using-the-term-36430/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"So, when the discussion about not using the term feminist came up at a conference workshop, I couldn't believe it. The more I listened, the more I felt the need to express my passion about my identity as a feminist." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-when-the-discussion-about-not-using-the-term-36430/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

