"So, when the discussion about not using the term feminist came up at a conference workshop, I couldn't believe it. The more I listened, the more I felt the need to express my passion about my identity as a feminist"
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Buckley’s disbelief isn’t just personal pique; it’s a diagnostic moment about how institutions launder politics into palatable branding. A conference “workshop” is already a place where language gets sanded down for consensus, where the sharp edges of identity are treated like liabilities. When she hears people float the idea of avoiding “feminist,” she’s catching the quiet capitulation: the movement’s aims are acceptable, but the word is “complicated,” “divisive,” bad for networking, donors, or optics. Her reaction exposes how often public life tries to separate conviction from vocabulary, as if you can keep the substance while throwing away the sign.
As an actress, Buckley understands labels as both costume and contract. Words frame how an audience reads you; they also determine what you’re allowed to say next. That’s why her insistence on “my identity as a feminist” matters. She’s refusing the common compromise offered to women in public-facing careers: be for equality, but don’t be “that kind of woman.” The line “the more I listened” builds a slow-burn indignation, suggesting she’s watched this rhetorical retreat happen in real time, in polite tones, among people who likely consider themselves allies.
The quote works because it captures a familiar cultural trade: respectability in exchange for self-erasure. Buckley’s “passion” isn’t decorative; it’s the engine of reclamation. She’s saying the word is part of the fight, because the fight is partly about who gets to name reality.
As an actress, Buckley understands labels as both costume and contract. Words frame how an audience reads you; they also determine what you’re allowed to say next. That’s why her insistence on “my identity as a feminist” matters. She’s refusing the common compromise offered to women in public-facing careers: be for equality, but don’t be “that kind of woman.” The line “the more I listened” builds a slow-burn indignation, suggesting she’s watched this rhetorical retreat happen in real time, in polite tones, among people who likely consider themselves allies.
The quote works because it captures a familiar cultural trade: respectability in exchange for self-erasure. Buckley’s “passion” isn’t decorative; it’s the engine of reclamation. She’s saying the word is part of the fight, because the fight is partly about who gets to name reality.
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| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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