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Leadership Quote by Guy Green

"So, without being cold, you really have to try to retain the capacity to help people without becoming too emotional or allowing your own emotions to have full rein"

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Green is talking about the hardest balancing act in public service: staying human without becoming hostage to your own feelings. The opening caveat - "without being cold" - is doing a lot of work. It anticipates the classic accusation aimed at politicians and bureaucrats: that distance becomes indifference. Green insists on a different kind of distance, one that isn’t contempt but calibration.

The key phrase is "retain the capacity". Compassion, here, isn’t treated as a natural wellspring; it’s a muscle that can fatigue, atrophy, or be overstrained by constant exposure to other people’s crises. That’s an unusually candid admission for a politician, because it frames empathy as labor with limits, not as a perpetual brand attribute.

"Help people without becoming too emotional" signals a suspicion of performative feeling. In politics, emotion can be currency - it rallies crowds, sells narratives, punishes opponents. Green’s intent is more managerial than inspirational: effective help requires triage, trade-offs, and decisions that will upset someone. Too much emotion muddies judgement, invites favoritism, and turns every case into a referendum on the self.

The archaic-sounding "full rein" lands like a warning about power, not just mood. Emotions unrestrained don’t merely overwhelm; they steer. The subtext is that leadership demands disciplined empathy: feeling enough to act, not so much that the feeling becomes the point. In an era where public grief and outrage are often amplified as proof of virtue, Green is arguing for something less marketable but more durable: steady, bounded care.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Green, Guy. (n.d.). So, without being cold, you really have to try to retain the capacity to help people without becoming too emotional or allowing your own emotions to have full rein. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-without-being-cold-you-really-have-to-try-to-132859/

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Green, Guy. "So, without being cold, you really have to try to retain the capacity to help people without becoming too emotional or allowing your own emotions to have full rein." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-without-being-cold-you-really-have-to-try-to-132859/.

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"So, without being cold, you really have to try to retain the capacity to help people without becoming too emotional or allowing your own emotions to have full rein." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/so-without-being-cold-you-really-have-to-try-to-132859/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Guy Green is a Politician from Australia.

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